How to Stay Holy When You're Hrny

A Survival Guide for the Grown, Single & Divorced

by Jacob B. Bleu

✔ Full 77-page eBook (PDF) • ✔ Instant Download • ✔ Real Hope, Real Grace

Fair warning:

The title is as real as the journey.

If you've ever tried to follow God and tried to follow your urges… at the same time… welcome. You're home.

This Book Is Your Companion If You're Navigating:

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Singleness after heartbreak

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Divorce recovery

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Desire & longing

Temptation & loneliness

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Shame & religious guilt

Wanting connection without chaos

Trying to honor God while also not losing your mind

What's Inside

This book mixes storytelling, faith, science, personal growth, boundaries, and real-life tools to help you find alignment—not perfection.

Personal stories from a 13-year marriage, divorce, and rediscovering identity

A compassionate look at sexuality, desire, and purity culture as an adult

What different religions teach about premarital sex

The neuroscience + sociology behind desire

How to date with clarity (not chaos)

Approaches for abstinence and non-abstinence lanes

What to do when you slip

The 5-Check Framework for healthy intimacy

Real Hope Affirmations

Prayers for strength & forgiveness

And a full Toolbox Section to help you stay grounded

Preview the Book

This isn't a rulebook.

It's a lifeline.

A companion for people who love God but also love… well… being human.

If you're grown, single, divorced, lonely, curious, overwhelmed, tempted, hopeful, confused, or rebuilding—this is for you.

You are not broken.

You are not alone.

You are loved. 💛

And you deserve alignment, clarity, and peace in this season.

Everything You Need Inside

Full 77-page eBook (PDF)

Complete digital guide you can read anywhere

Spiritual, emotional, and practical tools

A holistic approach to your journey

Affirmations + prayers

Daily support for your faith walk

The 5-Check Framework

Your guide to healthy intimacy decisions

Boundaries + dating guidelines

Practical wisdom for modern relationships

Real stories, real grace, real hope

Authentic experiences you can relate to

Valentine's Day Gift to Yourself 💛

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